✨simple + radical everyday sexual wellness✨ //wild + vibrant sexual ecology • • eros herbalism 🌿 erotic healing arts coaching✨classes✨products
✨simple + radical everyday sexual wellness✨ //wild + vibrant sexual ecology • • eros herbalism 🌿 erotic healing arts coaching✨classes✨products
As I prepare for birth, I’m called to make ALL my a la carte classes on my site a community resource for no cost. These classes are designed for trauma healing, for starting a sexual wellness practice, and for eros herbalism. If you desire, please use this resource from my heart and pelvis to yours and share with your community and friends. Over 8 hours of classes, PDFs, herbalism, and sexual wellness techniques as well as embodied earth wisdom. I feel so much wants to be liberated with this site, and with its connection to capitalism. So it’s yours now. To take part- go to sexualelemental dot com and use the email wildandvibrantbeings @gmail .com as your login and your password is wvbeings2019 All classes will then be found when you click on memberships. Enjoy, and I love you ❤️🕊
//REUNION 🐉The more I open up my pussy, and sound from that space, the messier my life has become. What I mean is that I am slowly becoming the messy, wild, bitch of my dreams. I say no without thinking twice, I let my Scorpio sting out and defend my space verbally, and I feel strong in my pelvic throat connection. 🐉I’m watching the way this is actively somewhat *ruining* the way things used to be. What people expect from me is an unparalleled sweetness. And while it’s true that I’m pretty sweet to my core, I’m becoming more me by just letting things out of my throat. Speaking my mind everywhere I go. Not necessarily thinking or feeling the situation first. Slashing expectation. 🐉I love my wild, messy, bitch. I love not censoring speech as much as I used to. Not trying to be good, or as an empath, not knowing what I need to say to be the living balm for another humans emotional field. 🐉I’m me. I get to be human. I get to complain. I get to squeal and be delighted, LOUDLY. If someone makes small talk with me, I can say please don’t talk to me right now if I’m not feeling it. I don’t even have to say please. I don’t even have to say anything. 🐉This leaves more space for compassion, actually, in all situations. More in my throat, I speak, and then there is so much more room in my body instead of if I had held it in and alchemized it another way, the longer way. Letting the rest of my body do the work my throat would like to do so desperately. Now my throat just does what it needs to first. It has required letting a gate down, permanently. 🐉My pussy gave me this superpower! My pussy, and sounding daily from this space, is unwinding the conditioning in my throat and it is literally butter. It’s the sweetest, juiciest peach. It’s been a rollercoaster fully waking up to my conditioning and people’s expectations of me, and yet I feel SO FUCKING GOOD. IM MORE ME. you can be too. We can open up these places and be free and alive and ourselves. Photo: Italian dragon plates circa 1500
SEXUALLY WELL// (part 2 ) At this point in my work with people, I’m starting to see the connections- it’s not just fertility- it’s chronic infections, utis, vulvodynia, vaginismus, and all manners of back pain that are relieved with learning and self-connecting in this place. This gland, discovering it, exploring it, allowing it to have space in our conversation not just as a “spot” or a “trick” or an “orgasm” but as a place of very real beauty, fertility, spirituality, and scientific immunity. 🐉 Getting in contact with it in a very deep and authentic way is literally healing everyone Im working with from just about everything. This is not to say that authentic sexual wellness isn’t a journey with other layers or to simplify things. But I can’t not share this pattern of health that’s emerging from countless clients presenting multiple types of issues. 🐉 This gland, the vibrant gland, should be basic sex ed, basic wellness, and basic reproductive health knowledge. A fun, helpful stop on the fertility journey. I vacillate between total outrage and total grief that our basic anatomy is still hidden and made to be a mystery to us and it fills me with passion for what I do. WE HAVE A GLAND INSIDE OUR VAGINAS THAT HEALS US AND KEEPS US HAPPY AND SEXUALLY WELL. 🐉👑🐉
FERTILITY GLAND// (part 1 ) The more I come to work with myself, my products, and my clients, around the vibrant gland (my name for the gspot- because it’s not a spot it’s a gland ), the more I see how it’s connected to a deep, immunological + spiritual fertility that brings both confidence and health. ✨ Releasing from your gland, and gushing, brings incredibly health and vibrancy to your vagina. It also allows for a deep rest. The particular fluid is full of hormones, immune markers, and good feeling chemicals like serotonin- but it also create an incredible environment for sperm to thrive. Combine this with the deep satisfaction and release a person with a pussy feels when ejaculating- orgasm or not- and this prostate gland in the pussy is an absolute health-confirming fertility gland. 🥑 I follow many people and am aware in the fertility community and with my clients- that fertility can be a painful, often confusing subject. I don’t share this to proclaim that anything is wrong with anyone who cannot yet access this gland. I share this as an uplifting and crucial part of my own and many others journeys. I was told I was infertile for at least 10 years of my so called most fertile time of life. I went through so many wellness passageways to try to learn more and while I did, nobody ever spoke about healing your sex- that releasing tension and fluid in your pelvis is a way to more fertility. It’s like the whole sex part was forgotten. And yet daily gushing has given me more fertility than I ever dreamed. I’m pregnant for the third time in four years. ✨ It’s a complicated picture of total health and wellness- spirit as well- but to not even mention as so many doctors or providers do to the millions of seekers out there that YOUR SEX and EROTIC SELF may have something to do with your fertility is just absurd and cruel to me at this point.🔥
//SURRENDERING TO THE AUTHORITY OF THE WOMB 👑None of this makes sense. The exhaustion, the beauty, the ripening, the descent. 🐉 👑For the past three months I’ve been deep in the authority of my womb. Newly, surprisingly, pregnant I’ve tried, as a passionate business owner and Virgo rising, to come back into the brain, or even the body-mind, really ANY place of logic, order, and function. It’s been futile. The womb is guiding me. 👑I’ve made hundreds of errors- missed personal appointments, wrong professional packages, and burning numerous meals that previously I thought I could make in my sleep. For those that feel forgotten- I assure you I’m here. 🐉 👑I’ve crashed into sleep, into baths, into daydreams and nightmares as my body grows this being from scratch- a whole being, a placenta, also nourishes my two other children with my two nipples, is a home for my husbands body to dock into, and a safe place for me to rest some days, but certainly not all. 👑As I lift my head from a womb slumber, a chaos both delicious and terrifying to our linear notions, I can no longer feel the power of the mind. Only the ultimate authority of the wombscape, the surrender to what feels like my bodies true operating system. 👑My sex, my mother body, is all that is. I weep and deeply feel more powerfully than ever our society has no way of understanding this rhythm, anymore. There is no punishing god. Only mother body, our first holy comfort. 🐉 👑I only feel the sweet licks of mystery, of soil, of cycles. There is this soft, fertile, terrifyingly powerful and supremely sexual mother body that no one knows how to come home to, and yet we all deeply wish we remembered. Of course we had to make it disgusting or forget. To choose only to respond to the vibrations of the maiden. To remember the center of the world, the authority of the womb, and your orbit would be too wild. To remember our power not just in maiden but in deep reverence to the full moon mother would be to stop obeying and start howling. 🐉
1:1 mentorship opening// Have you heard my stories or read my posts about the vibrant gland and squirting and thought- “I want that!”? If so, I’d love to welcome you to a mentorship for this high summer moment that is intimate and transformational. ✨learn about your body, your breath, and your own pelvic prostate gland that has the ability to squirt + gush + release ✨learn herbal pelvic steaming to warm and open your hormonal networks ✨learn magnetic openings to pleasure, your power, and initiate yourself ✨learn holistic, scientific, and mystical sexual wellness tools for daily communication ✨play with sex magic, your erotic power + program your reality ✨learn the real truth about happiness and it’s connection to your vaginal immunity ✨delight in your body and become the being you are seeking Opening on this eclipse portal to participants as a response to your requests to open this container again. It’s 6 weeks of magic, wellness, and erotic expression- DM me for more information or to join- I’d adore having you. With all my heart + pelvis, xoxo 🗝🌿🗝
WEAVING// Off to vend and teach @spiritweavers gathering and I feel so grateful for this opportunity to be with others, celebrating and deepening. In honor of this movement, I’m offering 20% my site to all with the code WEAVING. I make these products for our sexual wellness, beauty, and integration. If you’ve been waiting to experience, I welcome you with this code, beauty. Pic @owel .shift featuring @visualvitaliti @curvytigertails @leeyamakesnoise @sydnatious @leahluna333 @poe .yoni @illatina @fertilefemme @estephania17
BRUME RITUAL PELVIC STEAM BLENDS// Im so excited to announce my four distinct Ritual Pelvic Steam blends for full spectrum sexual wellness. From sexual trauma, to healing postpartum, to balanced vaginal microbiome balance, to increased pleasure + delight- NOTHING has been more supportive to me or my clients than Ritual Pelvic Steaming. Truly the people’s gyn//ecology, these blends are designed for personal ritual use. Combining nourishing, balancing, restoring, and cleansing herbs into medicinal water vapor is a healing erotic art, harnessed in these blends for true power. For your sexual wellness, find these four blends designed with different needs in mind, to be used on different moons as you wish. Four distinct Rituals: 🌒Balsamic //reflect + rest 🌘Gibbous //refine + hone 🌙Crescent //move + release 🌕Full //illuminate + nourish All of these blends are designed with sustainability and regional respect- the quality of the herbs in these blends are breathtaking. Some hand gathered by me, many grown by small earth and land tenders or wildcrafted ethically. You can FEEL the power of these herbs and their potency. These herbs are of a different caliber- fresher, land connected, incredible quality. Each comes in a large, heirloom quality UV protective miron glass apothecary jar from Europe that you can re-use for herbs, oils, or delightful magic. ✨ Approximately 10-20 steams per large bottle of highly nourishing herbal vapors. #linkinbio To peruse this beauty.
FULL LOVERS BLOOM// I’m offering something special for this month, to take us from new moon to full- feeling the solstice. A special Gemini lovers box with a limited edition rose + thorn tincture in a small batch wild sage mezcal from a small ranch in Oaxaca, steeped three times over with wild roses, smoked shatavari root, ocotillo honey, and a splash of triple extracted lions mane from a local grower here in MN. Combined with my NEW bloodsong smoking blend that has beautiful 17% cbd flower, and my Valley oil that now has 20% small batch single origin 1000mg cbd in it. This is botanical wonderment, enveloped musing, and a blast of that summer feeling all wrapped into this box ✨ I’m SO JAZZED to offer this until Friday, with your ultimate summer in mind, smoking and swooning, self + partnered love, sensual rolling in the grass, and balanced, brightened hormones. Enjoy, Lovers! Limited number available for the amazing $129 #linkinbio
UNWINDING// Today, while touching myself, I was led down an old path. The stroke, the rhythm, was old and worn and felt so hard on my system. Like I was pushing myself. I sensed I was leaving my body and felt a creeping darkness come over me. I took a moment, breathed into my pussy, and started touching myself with a new rhythm. Made some sounds to let out that old ick. With two hands, in a new way, exploring my body with new hands. Even then, I started to feel the old feelings come up. They haven’t in so long- my sexual self care unwinding the old way my nervous system used to hold pleasure into something new is a daily awakening for me. So to have this old pattern come was just a glimpse into the past- “oh, I see how I used to feel” I thought. I started to cry tears of grief. “I used to think this was me- that THIS THING was my pleasure.” I grieved and realized these old pieces needed love. Wept for how far I’ve come- that I don’t have the old nervous/pleasure pattern of trauma on top of my authentic sex anymore on a day to day basis, and then I held myself. I squirted with a long exhale of love. I am not my trauma. My sex does not have to be wired or attuned to my trauma. A new layer can always be revealed. My body is mine. These patterns aren’t me. I am real, beautiful, shining, raw. ✨
BREAST MASSAGE// As a nursing mama of two, breast massage daily allows me to reset my system in an empowered way. After giving so much of myself to others from this holy place, daily breast massage recenters my body and my hormones with a nourishing drink of MYSELF. I feel full of my own magnetism, beauty, and power and right back in my heart center. I move grief and stuck tension and help align my back. My RADIANT BREAST class on my site #linkinbio can help you start this simple, everyday practice towards lymphatic health, emotional radiance, and a sense of deep beauty. ✨ my arcline oil also recenters me with its loving borage, rosehip, marshmallow, fresh violet, and chamomile lunar infusions. I use rose gold and opal to bring in the energy of my breasts when mamahood or life has me feeling drained and giving too much- so that I come back to myself.
MOTHER//FUCKING As my mother//fucking group is preparing to start in June, I’m reminded daily how deep the motherhood, embodiment, and empowerment journey really is. Last night nursing my now 1 year old, with my toddler sick and crying, and my heart just bursting open- exhausted and crying with feeling so strong and soothing all at the same time. Tearing up at my toddler starting to make offerings “to the ancestors” or giving thanks to the earth or the goddess and starting to tell me how he “loves” so many new things- seeing how he mimics both the beauty and the pain and trying my best to protect him from my own tendencies I’d rather not pass down. I’m moved by how heartbreakingly tender and real this mothering journey is. My body feeling soft, enveloping, worldly. My pelvis feeling open, gushing; rotating with the planets and my partner. Feeling flirty and attracted to everything one day, and internal and activated the next. The mothering journey is a SEXUAL journey, my cervix birthed me over and over into this truer version of who I am, what I can do, and my body, my being, my voice. ⚡️✨⚡️xoxo pic @scrappyradish
COMMUNICATION// Talking to plants has taught me how to talk with my body. Specifically, how to checkin with my pussy and pelvis for daily guidance. The relationship I’ve developed with plants, where they share information with me and guide me- comes from this depth of relation. From pausing and checking in on them, approaching them with curiousity and care, and acknowledging their power. From touching them with a neutral energy in my hands- not to gain or take anything from them- this is not a commerce relationship- but simply to LISTEN. This primal relationship with plant intelligence has guided me to my root, to be able to listen on the same frequency. And truly the plants and the garden of my pelvis seem to share lots of the same needs, same wavelengths. It is a fluency borne of play, raw risks, intuition, and consent. The plants taught me this first- and then I realized this is THE SAME LANGUAGE OF MY BODY. xoxo 🗝✨ gorg pic @scrappyradish
//sexualelemental We are eros earth, eros air, eros fire, eros water, eros cosmos. Our inner rhythm and outer body cycling with the elements and weaving our way, together, to a new embodiment. Pic of me, my wands, the sex jam, herbs, and my laugh @_jennadailey and @sacredspaceofficial ❤️ for their incredible new star seed dream series which I will be a part of amongst many other amazing practitioners. Xoxo✨
REBIRTH// For years there was so much of my sex trapped in a little girl place. ⚡️ Whenever I get turned on, I am suddenly a younger self in my adult body. ⚡️ My eyes start taking care of needs unspoken, I’ve left myself and know I’m looking at the person before me not as my lover, but as my abuser. The only thing is, for at least 20 years this wasn’t something I was conscious of. I felt like my sexual acts were hijacked by this strange compulsion, almost in a trance, my nervous system performing. I wondered who I was and where I had gone every time, but thought I was crazy. ⚡️ As abuse teaches, the reason something bad is happening is because of you. ⚡️ Everyday when I touch into MY sex, when I birth my new sexuality with my own hands, I dismantle the old abuse pattern on top of my nervous system. It’s delicate, glorious, and something I never thought could happen. I thought I was cursed. ⚡️ If you’ve survived abuse, and it has impacted your sexuality, know that simple acts of sexual health and self-conversation with your body can unwind old patterns you may feel are locked. ⚡️ I’m joyously, raucously, unfurling and squealing my sex without this pattern in my sexual self care. Uncovering, with total commitment, the essence of who I was born as and who I am born to be: melting these sexual flowers in my mouth + pelvis, dripping and touching my way into my new sexual being.
//learning the language of my body spell, how to make myself squirt, the true fluency with this incredible gland, gives me the power, the tongue, and the alchemy of my sensual hum. Once I squirt, I am literal flow. I am belonging. To myself, my body, the skin of life. This ability has given me more power and confidence than I could ever understand, the bio-energetic, hormonal fluid baptizing my sex over and over again in pulses and snaking rhythm. 🗝✨the echo of my body is found in all rivers, all tides, all streams ✨ we are elemental in our sex, belonging to these waters, the earth, our power.
VIOLA// First violets for my breast oil 🕊 Gathered on Mother’s Day 🗝 made my nourishing infusion tonight with some and I feel so replenished and nourished.
SENSUAL ELEMENTAL// @agwinnert created this amazing intro for all my classes of me in my absolute rhythm and glory with my authentic sexuality clients. I’m adoring all of your response and feedback on the school- and the site. Thank you for seeing how much beauty and care I have put into these simple + radical tools and classes. If it has moved you, I’d be honored if you share with a friend, mama, or any other soul in your life who desires sexual wellness. Thank you for being a part of this community of sensual herbalism, sexual self-care, and holistic transformation. Pictured @visualvitaliti beautiful client ✨ Xoxo
//my group program, mother//fucking, is beginning this June and will be online next year. I’m so fiercely dedicated to sensual sexual motherhood as an initiation and a centering. I believe this sensual motherhood is our future, present, and deepest history. So excited ✨xoxo
ME + my husband the day we got pregnant// Becoming a mama is the sexiest, holiest, hardest, most natural thing in the world. It’s the dream, the secret I kept hidden for so many years: I want this. I want this thing. I thought no one would pick me. That my body, my pussy, my womb wasn’t good enough. Well enough. It was- I took a huge leap and believed that I was worthy of love, that I could get my slut, my sex, my hunger out and be free. This birthing process of motherhood has birthed me into the most integrated, powerful, tender, badass, and sensual version of me. My cervix opening to my baby created a whole new version of my life, my body, and my being. My sex ❤️
//waking up I spent so much of my life trying to fit in or shame myself because of my body. It was so violent, my body rejection. Why won’t you just FIT IN?! I was always speaking to her. WHY WONT YOU CONFORM? (old trauma pattern lodged inside ) launching my site yesterday, I had a flash of that voice- saying you can’t speak about pleasure, sexual health, wellness- because you don’t look thin enough, or sexy enough, or rich enough. This old patriarchal and capitalistic programming runs deep, even with the work I’ve done! I spoke up to the voice and shared that I’m absolutely sure that I know about pleasure, about earth healing, and body healing. I shared with this voice that I am absolutely FUCKING SURE that our stories can heal and transform others- and that sexuality, and talking about sexuality, isn’t just about being “sexy”. It’s about presence with life and our feelings. It’s about living from a place of aliveness that doesn’t look like what we think it looks like. It’s about heart drippingly, heart-aching openness and the ability to close when needed. It’s this super tender, bold, powerful journey and it DOES NOT HAVE TO DO WITH HOW YOU LOOK- it’s about RECLAMATION. I called the voice out and gave it a hug- at the same time letting it crumple it’s weak bones in my arms. I can talk about sex with a mama body, with a body full of scars, with a healing body. So can YOU. My desirability isn’t about the external gaze. It’s about my internal magnet to myself that keeps me centered in my own sexual goodness. That’s my gaze. That’s my holy center. That’s the pull. ✨🐚✨
EROS// Today’s the day! I’m launching at a secret sensual time designed by my Astro chart. I’ll announce when it’s live- and I welcome you to my new site- full of simple, radical tools for sexual wellness ✨ it’s a sensual, earth connected touch into beauty, power, and erotic health with live and recorded classes. ✨The consciousness and truth that lives in our bodies and our voices is ripe., and I can’t wait to welcome you there- look for a drop later today, and until then- enjoy this Venusian day. Xoxo Graphic @sidewisedesign
MY REVOLUTION// Turning the male gaze into MY gaze... mama belly included. ✨🗝✨ Xoxo photo @scrappyradish of my turn on in the forest 🍃